Create Change: The struggles amputee veterans face and how you can help them


As we pay homage to those who served for their country and for its freedom, it’s more important than ever to be aware that for some, their day-to-day life will never be the same, having irreversibly been changed forever.

Veterans who were disabled before September 11, 2001, for example, must choose between a nursing home or paying out of pocket if they want to be cared for by family at home. A nursing home can cost up to $400,000 a year.

It’s unbelievable that they are even in a situation that they are forced to choose — shouldn’t it be a given that they get comprehensive caregiver benefits?

But there is a way to change this wrong, so that future generations won’t suffer the indignity of struggling long after they made the ultimate sacrifice for their country.

Dave Kelly is a quadruple amputee and a veteran. But because he lost both his arms and legs before September 11, 2001, the VA’s Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers doesn’t extend caregiver benefits to families like his his.

Dave relies on his wife Yvonne to help him to get dressed, eat, bathe, and put on his prosthetics. Without Yvonne’s love and devotion, Dave would not have been able to start a career in IT and build a fulfilling life. But despite Yvonne’s essential role as his caregiver, current law makes her ineligible for caregiver benefits.

Dave has started a petition to change this for his family and the tens of thousands of families falling through the cracks.

Here is his story:

Like many husbands, each day begins and ends with my wife, Yvonne. As a former Coast Guard helicopter rescue swimmer and quadruple amputee, I am able to get out of bed every morning and rest comfortably at night because of her. Yvonne is my caregiver—one of America’s unsung heroes who takes care of the millions of disabled veterans living in America. She is why I am urging Congress to extend the Department of Veteran Affairs’ (VA) comprehensive caregiver assistance benefits to all disabled veterans of all eras.

Under the current VA program, some family caregivers for injured veterans are already recognized and supported for their work. But not Yvonne, or thousands of others like her. Today, only caregivers of veterans who were injured on or after September 11, 2001 are eligible – leaving tens of thousands of families caring for veterans without sufficient support or resources.

Yvonne—like so many other loving caregivers—made a lifetime of personal sacrifices to help manage my care yet she’s not eligible for all of these benefits. It is virtually impossible for me to take Yvonne for granted, but I feel like the system does. She has been, for all intents and purposes, my most important prosthetic. Her steadfast and tireless support has given me the independence I’ve needed to thrive in life.

My family is one of the many veteran families left out because of an arbitrary date in the law. In 1997, I contracted an infection that stopped the blood flow inside my body and put me in a coma for a month.  That left it to Yvonne to make the difficult decision to let doctors amputate all four of my limbs and remove several internal organs in order to give me a chance at survival.

But over the last two decades, with Yvonne’s love and support, we have been able to build a meaningful life together. I was able to learn and succeed in a new career in the IT sector. I even learned to ski and golf, competed in cycling races and rose through the ranks to become the National Commander of the 1.3 million member Disabled American Veterans.

The things Yvonne does for me—helping me dress, bathe, eat, get out of bed and put on my prosthetics—are all made easier by the fact that she is right there by my side when I wake up in the morning. When a caregiver is able to stay home and provide that kind of round-the-clock care, it helps create a better quality of life and better health outcomes for disabled veterans.

It’s also been shown that supporting family caregivers is less costly to the federal government than treating veterans through institution-based options. For example, I am eligible for nursing home care which could cost nearly $400,000 per year, whereas average cost per veteran through VA’s Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers is under $40,000 annually. In addition to preventing unwanted and more costly nursing home admissions, caregivers reduce overall health care costs by minimizing medical complications and lowering the number of hospital admissions for veteran patients. And perhaps most importantly, it allows so many injured and ill veterans remain in their homes with family.

Caregivers truly are America’s Unsung Heroes. Please encourage your Member of Congress to honor and support these unsung heroes by extending ALL comprehensive caregiver benefits to ALL severely disabled veterans, not just those injured after 9/11.

There is no better day than Veterans Day to lend your voice to support the issues impacting our nation’s heroes. You can do so, by signing Dave’s petition HERE — help create this much-need change to the system.

Below is a clip which gives you an insight into the daily struggles amputee soldiers face:


Article by melissa

Melissa Myers is a trained journalist working in London and New York. She worked for national newspapers in the U.K. as a celebrity journalist and was the News Director of In Touch magazine in the U.S. In 2017, she focused on making a difference in the world and launched her website Melissa also builds websites for various clientele and runs social media campaigns for non-profits.